Saturday, April 01, 2006

a contemptible 40-30-20-10 game

Most men are not contented with marriage.

40% of the time:-
He is blissfully happy;
He thinks about his spouse constantly;
He marvels at how lucky he's to have found his wife;
He lives in perfect harmony because he is communicating well;
He is able to laugh even without pocket money;
He whispered words, shared secrets, and sexes are all sweeter because of the discovery of his "true love";
He thinks that all Saturday will be a "fevered" day;
He took all failures belong to his responsibilities.

30% of the time:-
He lets life just goes along;
He focuses on soccer games, 4 digits, gambling, (one or many) and daily works more often then home affairs;
He has somehow let the marriage to be driven by autopilot;
He tends to reduce communication, sharing, or making love; but
He is content and comfortable with the partnership share.

20% of the time:
He is tempestuous;
He thought that his spouse doesn't care about his feelings, and isn't helping with his share of the work;
He took most of all failures return to his spouse's share.

10% of the time:-
He takes on arguing of what are the fairs and gives a portion of what is considered to be his spouse's share.

None of the above is bad. Life is full of peaks and valleys. One is needed to appreciate the other playing through the game. Look, here is a good testimony from http://city.udn.com/v1/forum/article.jsp?no=344&aid=1626321

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

well kk, are you one of those men?

Picatho (百可度) said...

Ehh! It's not mirroring my ownself lah, it's simply the comment traits of most men. Yes, I'd enjoyed the first 50% of them but I'd later on totally changed to become a good and responsible men for the balance of 50%. Didn't you notice my profile change?